Tending To Teen Depression During the Holiday Season

With the holiday season fast approaching, many families are very eager to spend time together and enjoy some relaxation and bonding after a long and stressful year. The holidays present an opportunity for parents to enjoy some quality time with their children and catch up on the events that have shaped their year. 

However, while holidays are ideally fun and exciting for most teenagers, they can nonetheless be very stressful for some. This is especially true if they have suffered a recent loss of a loved one or if they have a family member who is affected by a terminal illness. It is not very uncommon for teens to suffer from debilitating depression during the holiday season. 

If your teenage son or daughter is struggling with depression during this time, here are some of the tips that you can employ to help them cope with their uncomfortable feelings. 

Ensure they Eat a Healthy Diet

It is very easy for your child to succumb to unhealthy eating habits when dealing with depression during the holidays. They may start binging on unhealthy fast foods to distract them from their feelings, or refuse to eat at all. As their primary caregiver, you should ensure that your struggling teenager partakes a healthy diet in order to promote their physical and mental wellbeing. Make sure that your teenager takes in regular meals with lots of fruits and vegetables. It is also vital that they drink lots of water to keep their bodies healthy. 

Employ Humor to Help them Relax

The physical and mental health benefits of laughter have been proven beyond dispute. Studies have shown that laughter can help reduce blood pressure, release tension in the body muscles and improve metabolism. If your teenager is struggling with depression, helping them to laugh more can greatly help alleviate their negative feelings and promote physical wellbeing. Try sharing jokes with them as often as you can, or watch comedies which they like together with them.


Encourage them to Exercise

Engage in physical exercises can greatly alleviate depression since it helps boost the production of endorphins, which are feel-good hormones. Even a simple exercise like walking or jogging can improve blood circulation in the body and promote better mental and physical health. You should, therefore, encourage your teenager to take part in exercises. Going on morning jogs together, for instance, will not only enable your child to become more active, but it will also allow you to bond with them.


Help them Confront their Negative Thoughts and Feelings

It is very easy for depressed teenagers to fall into a vortex of negative thoughts and feelings which makes it impossible for them to enjoy life. If these issues are not dealt with appropriately, they may lead to suicidal thoughts. To avoid this eventuality, you must support your child in confronting these unwanted thoughts and emotions. Cognitive-behavioral therapy can help your depressed teenager to examine their thoughts and develop healthy mechanisms of coping with them whenever they arise. 

In Conclusion

The holiday season is supposed to be a time of relaxation and bonding. By applying these tips, you can help your child overcome their depression, so that they can enjoy this festive season along with friends and loved ones.

Dealing With Bullies

Bullying is one of the worst types of abuse that any child can go through. Kids who are bullied tend to be perpetually scared, lonely, and prone to feeling hurt, sick, and embarrassed. Some of the tactics often used by bullies include kicking, hitting, violent pushing, and sometimes mean words intended to tease or scare the victim. Bullies also use threats to make their victims do things they wouldn't otherwise do. 

Bullying is A Massive Problem 

You may not see it in the news every week, but bullying is actually a big problem. Statistically, 75% of all kids report being bullied, teased, or made fun of in their interactions with other kids. The aftermath of this leaves the young victims feeling inadequate and stressed, which can subsequently make them sick. 

Notably, kids who have been bullied may be reluctant to go to school. And even when they go, their minds may only be focused on how to deal with the bully. 

Why Do Bullies Act That Way? 

Most bullies are often driven by attention seeking tendencies - they see it as a way to gain popularity among their peers. Other bullies have an inferiority complex, hence they pick on weaker kids to feel powerful. In contrast, some bullies may have been victims of bullying before. 

Kids who come from dysfunctional families, where violence is a daily occurrence, are also more likely to become bullies, as they may perceive violence as an ordinary act. 

In most cases, bullies will pick on someone they consider weak or powerless. It could be the kid who gets upset fast or the tiny one who can't fight. Sometimes, however, they may just terrorize a random person for no particular reason. 

How to Handle Bullying

Our advice on this depends on your situation. We have highlighted ways to prevent run-ins with bullies, as well as what to do if you get confronted by one.

1) Avoiding Conflicts With Bullies

• Avoid the bully as much as possible - Instead of skipping class, you may want to change your route home to avoid meeting them outside the safety of the class.
• Be Brave - Whenever you're in the presence of a bully, stand straight and act brave with a "don't mess with me" attitude.
• Change Your Attitude About Yourself - Too often, bullies capitalize on your lack of self-esteem. To overcome this, you may want to get more exercise, read more books, and watch less TV. Being fit and performing well in school will do wonders for your self-confidence.

2. If The Bully Pokes You

• Ignore Them - Pretend you didn't hear what they said about you and quickly walk away to a safe place.
• Stand up to the bully -Put on a brave face and say something like "Stop It!" as you walk away. 
• Don't Show Your Feelings - Avoid getting visibly sad or upset in the bully's presence as it emboldens them.
• Talk to An Adult - If you have a run-in with a bully, confide in an adult, you trust and see how they can help you. It could be your teacher, school administration, parents, or older siblings. Sometimes all it takes to stop a bully are some stern words from an adult.

What Happens to Bullies?

More often than not, bullies end up in trouble, either with the law, or the school authorities. If not, they end up with very few 'true' friends, as everyone else learns to avoid them. Simply put, it doesn't pay to be a bully.